During a particularly difficult moment last year, when I was feeling lost and overwhelmed, a friend told me to "Act as if."
"As if, indeed," I responded bitterly. "You have exactly what you've always wanted. The house, the social circle, the family, the career. You don't know what it means to have to act as if."
All these months later, I recall those words and think about how very different everything is. I think that maybe he was right. If you "act as if," maybe you do get closer to the things you wish for.
Or maybe, you just get closer to being happy with exactly what you have right now.
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